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Wednesday, 07 January 2009
   
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Loosen Up! PDF Print E-mail
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By Nico Cervantes, Nico Designs
Photography by Amy lundstom, Vita Bella PHotography

Have you ever wanted to leave a wedding long before it was over? I know I have. When this happens, it’s usually because the wedding didn’t have a flow, theme, thought, or well-organized plan. Was the ceremony too long, or were there endless speeches? Maybe it was the uninspired music or food?

Planning a wedding is like planning a great party, and it can be just as easy as that: taking special moments, possibly from childhood memories, and recreating them in your décor, food, and music so that your guests have a fabulous time celebrating your love, in style. Think about turning your wedding into an event that all of your guests (and you, too) will want to enjoy for the full experience. Yes, this day is all about you and your fiancé; however, don’t forget about optimizing the experience for the 100+ family members and friends who will help you celebrate and create priceless lifelong memories.

First off, pick a theme. Choose a theme and décor that reflects you both. I tell my couples to go back to their childhood and find something that stands out for them. You can recreate aromas, tastes, and feelings that take you back to a time when stress and congested traffic didn’t exist.
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For instance, I was once driving down the freeway when I saw a sign that read “Circus in Town.” It was too tempting to pass up, so I decided to take my niece and nephew the following day. As soon as we entered the gates, a showgirl with false eyelashes and overdone makeup took our tickets. As we walked toward the entrance to the large blue-and-yellow tent, something came over me and I felt eight years old again. As we got closer and closer to the tent, the aromas of fresh popcorn and candy apples drew me in. Just like my young companions, I sat in my seat entranced by crazy clowns, flying acrobats, and smiling faces. This could be one way to recreate a precious childhood memory: with fresh popcorn, snow cones, cotton candy martinis, fishbowl games at cocktails, fire throwers, lollypop centerpieces, barbecue, bright floral arrangements, and moonlit dancing till the end...

And creating fun and comfortable atmospheres doesn’t have to be kitschy and casual. The mood can be set in so many different ways, such as going back in time to recreate the glamour of a famous club like the Tropicana. A red carpet greets guests as they arrive to a venue transformed into a nightclub…they walk into a space filled with small dining tables, covered in shimmery silver scalloped-medallion linens and embellished with silver cabaret lamps…large and dramatic floral arrangements of white blooming cherry branches and gardenia blossoms in every corner. Lastly, a Swing band on a silver stage, overlooking a black-and-white checkered dance floor, completes the mood, sending the guests back 65 years.
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Environments such as these take us away from our hectic lives and remind us that it’s okay to stop and have a little fun.

I think it’s important to remember that it’s not just about great music, beautiful flowers, and delicious food. It’s about pulling it all together and creating a great party conceived with your own thought, emotion, personality, and charm. The idea doesn’t have to be taken over the top. It can be as easy as not providing formal tables and seating but, instead, using couches and day-beds to keep guests milling around and socializing. Think about replacing a sit-down dinner with hearty passed hors d’oeuvres and tapas stations. Incorporating small touches such as fire pits, cabañas, lounge areas, candy stations, ice cream sundae bars, and old-fashioned picture booths will make for a relaxed and enjoyable event. Throw away the pew bows, tulle netting, Jordan almonds, seating cards, and chair covers and add in some real fun! You can do it—just remember to loosen up, so that you and everyone else will enjoy every moment of your special day!

 
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Tips
  • #21 LA FLEUR TABLE
    Cover your entire table top with a single bold color of petals. Not just a scattering, but the entire top of the table with a thick layer of petals! You can purchase them at a farmers market or order them through your florist. Place your chargers, place settings, glassware and centerpieces in a contrasting color and lots of candles directly onto the petals for a stunning, romantic look!
    Jill La Fleur, The Wedding Planner

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  • #16 COMFORTABLE RECEPTIONS
    Reception spaces are taking on a comfort theme nowadays. Rather than using cocktail tables alone, couples are creating a lounge effect in their reception areas by adding cozy furniture groupings of sofas and coffee tables, along with tenting and draping, lamps and lanterns, lit up trees and dozens of candles. You may want to hire a jazz quartet or flamenco trio to create a sultry ambiance.  Some couples are even hiring cigar rollers!  You can also use this set-up outdoors for a living room beneath the stars!
    Jill La Fleur, The Wedding Planner

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  • # 1 - LOUNGING ANYWHERE
    Wonder what to do to a resort ballroom to make it more interesting and intimate?  You can create individual lounge areas by renting tents of sheer flowing fabric and adding sofas and coffee tables with lots of candlelight in them.  You’ve suddenly created that romantic lounge atmosphere in a standard ballroom and given it more intimacy.  Your guests can move to different “rooms” during the cocktails hour or or they can dance the night away.
    Jill La Fleur, The Wedding Planner 

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